Dear Editor:
Is anyone else tired of seeing alphabet soup as a means to obscure and confuse the meaning of something? Take LGBT. What is that? L is for Lesbian, G for gay, B for bisexual and T for transgender. Just a minute, Lesbians are also gay aren't they? Bisexuals have gay AND heterosexual tendencies, so hetero is also in there also. T must be for transgender but could also be transvestite. And what is that Q that is sometimes added at the end? I guess it can only be queer, right? Now that's offensive. So what is it that the folks in this "community" have in common, if anything? Oh I get it. They are all perverts, right? It's the only reason I can figure out that they should all be lumped together.
Well, they are NOT perverts and they also don't have much in common. So why do we insist on "lumping" them? First of all it is to obscure the real meaning. No one is quite sure what LGBT is and it sounds so much more polite than having to say gay, homosexual or queer. Boy do I feel better having an acronym to hide behind! Second it's to simplify, so we don't have to think about people as individuals. Just lump 'em.
We should have compassion for all persuasions that are different than ours. You want to talk about compassion? See the story done by Jenna Bush Hager on the Today show (April 13) about the mother of a transgender child. Search "Texas Mom's Faith" on Youtube and be enlightened.
But while we are talking about lumping diverse categories together in a "community", what is with that LGBT group anyhow? Why is it so exclusive?. I want IN! So I propose we define a LGBT(Q)H community. Now I can be part of that. Let's see lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transsexuals and heterosexuals! What a nice ring it has. LGBTQH. Wait a minute, H could also stand for homosexual. It never ends.
Since it is so fashionable to lump people together in "communities, let me propose a group which I might already be included in. Let's see . PPPRS. Pianists, Painters, Polymaths and Rocket Scientists. I'm in there somewhere. Want to join me in this "community"? Really folks, LGBT is basically gays and transgenders. Let's cut out all the confusion.
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