Mildred Landwehr hits 100

Mildred Landwehr looks at pictures of Matt Landwehr's two-week-old daughter Saturday at her 100th birthday celebration in Jefferson City. Family members and friends waited in line to speak with Mildred, who was described as an "iconic" member of the family and community.
Mildred Landwehr looks at pictures of Matt Landwehr's two-week-old daughter Saturday at her 100th birthday celebration in Jefferson City. Family members and friends waited in line to speak with Mildred, who was described as an "iconic" member of the family and community.

Mildred Landwehr said Saturday she feels like she "might be about 65."

However, the calendar says she turned 100 on Friday.

"I don't believe it, yet," she told the News Tribune on Saturday, during a reception where more than 100 friends and family members stopped by to visit, offer their congratulations and wishes for continued good health.

"I've had my ups and downs - but I was up more than down," she added. "And I had a good husband. I've got a wonderful family.

"And I couldn't ask for anything more."

She's been a widow for most of the last two decades.

However, said her son, Carl - second-oldest of her five surviving children, "She's always been positive.

"It just confirms in my mind that, if you take the right attitude about life, life will be good."

Carl said he couldn't remember a time when his mother didn't smile, and his siblings agreed she had very few down moments.

"She always did smile," Tom Landwehr said. "She was always the calming influence in the family."

Mildred explained, "We all have times when we don't smile, but you've got to pick yourself up and go on - don't look back, just look ahead.

"I'm happy. I love people and I love living."

Many things have changed during the last century, "very fast," she said. "When I was a baby, when I was a child, we didn't have electricity."

Oldest child - and only daughter - Stephana Landwehr said people should remember her mom as a good farm wife.

"She was a good manager of a lot of things," Stephana said. "She could manage food.

"She could manage the kitchen. She could manage the yard and the garden."

Former Mayor John Landwehr, next-to-last in Mildred's line of children, said the family is blessed.

"She's still in pretty good health. Her mind is good," he said.

And yongest son, Frank Landwehr - the only child who moved away from Jefferson City, and now lives in Ohio, said, "She was a hard worker and a good mom - and the times I remember most was when she took time to play a game with me or just do something special."

Each of her children were asked what one thing people should remember about Mildred.

In birth order, they said:

• Stephana: "She always went to church on Sunday, of course - and she would get up in the morning and go to the 5 o'clock Mass.

"(And) that she was a very caring person, a very caring mom."

• Carl: "She was hard-working, friendly and always smiling.

"She - I think more than anything - influenced us by her way of living and approach to life, setting a very high standard for all of us without demanding it."

• Tom: "Her kindness. She was always kind to everybody.

"She was always friendly to everybody. She was never too good not to talk to anybody."

• John: "Her basic goodness. Everybody has their moments, but my mom is consistently positive.

"She always goes out of her way to accommodate - her aim is to be cooperative.

"And there's just not a negative bone in her body."

• Frank: "Her faith is very strong - her Roman Catholic beliefs, faith in the church and the power of prayer.

"Her very deep, deep faith - and it's helped me and my family.

"I hope she has a lot more years, many more years."

There's no secret to her long life, Mildred said.

"There's not anything that I did that anybody else can't do," she explained. "I took it a day at a time.

"I never looked back, but always looked toward the future.

"And I think the Good Lord for giving me this time, and I'm thankful for my wonderful, big family."

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