In a manner of speaking
Mansion program teaches children rules of etiquette
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
Curtis Nicklas walked around a table with a handful of silverware, placing pieces where he thought they should go.
“I’m done, but I still have another knife and another spoon,” he told his teacher, Nikki Schulte.
Nicklas, an 8-year-old from Camdenton, was one of 30 children who attended Manners at the Missouri Governor’s Mansion on Monday. The annual event, themed “Put Your Best Food Forward,” taught children proper verbal communication, mobile manners, table manners, written communication and formal table setting. The same event is also being held June 26 and 27 at the mansion.
“Many people think that etiquette is a lost art,” said Laura Bennett-Smith, executive director of the Missouri Mansion Preservation. “We want to preserve that.”
The verbal communication lesson taught children that it’s not what you say, but how you say it.
“You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar,” said Liz Fleenor, a teacher at the event.
Fleenor also taught children mobile manners, such as not talking on a cellphone among a group of people.
Children learned proper written communication by writing letters to First Lady Georganne Wheeler Nixon, thanking her for hosting the event at the Governor’s Mansion.
They also learned proper table etiquette and how to set place settings on a table.
All of the teachers were docents — tour guides and educators — who volunteer their time with Missouri Mansion Preservation.
“They put in more than 8,500 volunteer hours annually here at the mansion,” Bennett-Smith said.
The children and their guests, parents or grandparents, attended a luncheon following the lessons. The luncheon provided an opportunity for the children to practice the manners they learned throughout the morning.
Children attending this week’s event represent 37 Missouri cities, as well as several cities in Kansas.
If you would like to reserve your child a spot at the June 26 or June 27 event, call 230-3118.
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