Family of slain San Diego-area boy defends suspect
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
EL CAJON, Calif. (AP) — The mother of a 12-year-old boy says the 10-year-old neighbor suspected of fatally stabbing her son is not a monster.
“Please don’t make it out that he was this terrible human being,” Lisa Carter told U-T San Diego.
Carter said she tried for 10 years to conceive her only son, Ryan, who was an honors student. She and her husband moved into their mobile home park in the east San Diego suburb of El Cajon when their son was born, selling their house to afford private school and start a college fund.
“I wanted him to have the best of everything,” his mother told the newspaper. “I wanted him to be the best that he could be.”
The 12-year-old victim slept at the boy’s home for two nights before he was attacked Monday at the end of the holiday weekend, said Cody Vales, a close friend of both boys. He said they were “like best buddies.”
The boy was stabbed in the 10-year-old neighbor’s driveway, said San Diego County Sheriff’s Lt. Larry Nesbit. The younger boy’s mother was home at the time but Nesbit didn’t know if she was inside or outside.
Vales, 16, said the suspect appeared calmer since he began taking a new medication about three weeks ago, becoming “a new kid.” He insisted his neighborhood friend didn’t act maliciously. He said the younger boy wasn’t one to pick a fight but exploded when he felt provoked.
Vales said the boy once punched him in the face for accidentally bumping his pelvis when they were jumping on a trampoline. The boy threw a tantrum when he spilled a cup of water inside his house and was asked to clean up.
“If you pushed his buttons and cussed him out, he’d just lose it on you,” Vales said.
The suspect liked to play football and practice Muay Thai boxing and jujitsu, Vales said. He was muscular and a little short for his age.
The 10-year-old boy, whose name was not released by authorities, was taken into custody shortly after the stabbing. Steve Walker, a spokesman for the San Diego County district attorney’s office, said prosecutors would decide how to handle the case after the sheriff’s department finishes its investigation.
California requires that children be at least 14 to be charged as adults, said Shaun Martin, a University of San Diego law professor. State law allows children to be detained until they turn 25, which would amount to a maximum sentence of 15 years for the boy if charged as a juvenile.
The suspect’s adoptive mother, who lived with the boy and her father, was the only person who knew how to calm him, Vales said. She hugged him and reassured him that everything would be all right.
“The nicest woman you’d ever meet,” Vales said. “If it was anybody else, they wouldn’t be able to put up with (him).”
No one answered the woman’s door Tuesday.
The neighborhood in San Diego’s foothills is one of modest, aging one-story homes on narrow, winding roads. The two boys played often with others at a playground clubhouse in the mobile home park where the victim lived. They sometimes pretended to be pirates.
It is unusual for children so young to kill. Law enforcement agencies reported 11 homicides nationwide by children 12 and younger in 2010 — the same number as in 2009 and 2008, according to FBI data.
James Alan Fox, a professor of criminology, law and public policy at Northeastern University in Boston, said that 1976 through 2010, 242 homicides were committed in the United States by children 10 and younger, according to his analysis of FBI statistics. Of those, 48 percent of victims were family, 20 percent were acquaintances and 8 percent were friends.
Fox said there are typically no telltale signs to predict such acts of violence.
“Overwhelmingly the most common element is just an argument,” he said. “It’s the same motivation why kids fight.”
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