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‘Buddy Packs' provide food for kids living in poverty

By Rosa Ruiz
rosa@newstribune.com
Published: Wednesday, August 13, 2008 5:05 PM CDT
For some elementary school students, backpacks aren't just for books.

Six local elementary schools partner with Central Missouri Food Bank's “Buddy Packs” program, which enables children living in poverty to have nutritious food during weekends.

Jefferson City Public Schools had 8,043 students enrolled for the 2007-2008 school year. Of those, 2,664 qualified for free breakfast and lunches and 579 qualified for reduced-price lunches, the district reported.

Through the “Buddy Packs” program, the backpacks are filled with 10-15 pounds of kid-friendly foods. Although there are always different items to help get the kids get through the weekend, there are four staples: protein, grains, shelf fruit and fruit juice.

United Way of Missouri provided the food bank with a grant four years ago to get the program started. There were three pilots schools, including East Elementary.

Principal Julie Martin generally starts the program the Friday after Labor Day.


“We usually start off with 10 bookbags, and by the end of the year, we have 25,” she said.

Martin asks her teachers to tell her about any kids that can benefit from the program. Once the child is selected, she calls them to her office before going home on Friday and hands them the backpack with their initials.

“It's a discreet process, although the kids don't really give each other any flak,” Martin said.

The school also participates in the snack distribution before lunch, where the teacher gives all students snacks that include granola bars and try to minimize sugar.

Some kids take back snacks for their siblings who are not a school that participates in the program, and teachers are encouraged to pack a few items for those kids as well.

While many kids do go home and share their snacks, there are those that are left alone to fend for themselves during the weekend, Martin said.

“I tell the kids that if they want to have their bookbag loaded again, they have to bring it back,” Martin said. “I have not had a lost bookbag in three years.”

Last fall semester, the food bank served 70 schools in 17 counties.

Peggy Kirkpatrick, executive director of food bank, said the program is fairly new and that is why the targets are elementary schools.

“Our goal is to serve all 32 counties in our area that need us ,” she said.



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boscoe wrote on Aug 22, 2008 10:21 PM:

" If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. "

Sportsmom wrote on Aug 22, 2008 6:31 PM:

" No, I don't hate you. Its just the observation I see when I read others' responses to you. Maybe hate is the wrong word, it is pretty strong. I forget and interchange that word with "drives them up a wall". What I meant was, "no wonder people are annoyed with you in their responses to your posts.."

I agree with all of those that said there are those who abuse it. I wish that were not true, because it does limit your willingness to help those who really do need it. I just hope that you try to remember these kids are the ones receiving the snacks in the backpack, not the parents. "

sandhouse wrote on Aug 21, 2008 4:05 PM:

" Local comparison....

If JC is willing to pay $4,000,000++ for a stupid football stadium we shouldn't complain about the cost of this program. "

sandhouse wrote on Aug 21, 2008 4:02 PM:

" Is there abuse of this program by some?? Undoubtedly.

Is that a valid reason to eliminate it?? Absolutely not.

If this nation is willing to spend $2,000,000,000 a week on a preemptive war based on lies....then I think we can step and fill some backpacks with food for hungry kids. "

oriley wrote on Aug 21, 2008 9:50 AM:

" I agree that there are those who truly need help and there are those who truly abuse it. For those who are trying, give it to them. For those who have computers, cell phones (as my family member does)and all the luxeries, but can't afford food or rent because she is on SSI...no, don't give it to them. If they can have those things then they shouldn't get welfare. Welfare is for those who CAN'T afford to live. I love the fact that she isn't mentally capeable of holding down a job and gets SSI, but she mentally capeable of having and raising children. How does that work? B.S. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 20, 2008 10:31 PM:

" Sportsmom: Who hates me on this forum? Do you hate me?

I never stereotyped all poor people. We are talking about people who have money for all sorts of things for themselves, but who neglect their children and do not properly feed them.

Please pay attention here. "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 20, 2008 9:25 PM:

" ~~~~I am a DEMOCRAT who it against this program, medicaid program.~~~~

I suggest you reevaluate your party preference. We as Democrats are not in the business of turning our backs on humans who need medical care and food. In fact, a Democrat is defined as, "one who practices social equality." If the idea of helping provide life's basic necessites to your fellows bothers you that much, the republican party would gladly welcome your membership. "

Sportsmom wrote on Aug 20, 2008 7:05 PM:

" *cont. suffered a horribile disability, maybe cancer, and cannot pay bills or work-shame on you.

Lots of people wake up every day and wish their lives did not turn out the way it did. They don't wake up and wish they were poor. Having to fill out those forms for welfare was very humiliating and degrading for my friend, she did work, she did her best, and yet she didn't want her child to starve. Shame on you. I bet she thought of people like you while she cried as she struggled with that decision... "

Sportsmom wrote on Aug 20, 2008 7:03 PM:

" OMG Boscoe. You just proved why people hate you so much on these boards. Sterilize people? Stop them from breeding? Are you really that insane to stereotype all poor people into neglectful parents that don't deserve to have children? Yes some people abuse the system. I get it. But a lot of them don't. You think you are so high and mighty spitting out your self-righteous posts. For the mother who was raped, but chose to keep her child and raise it the best she could-shame on you. For the mother who's husband left her and is trying to make ends meet-shame on you. For the family where "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 20, 2008 6:07 PM:

" ~~~~think you will stick with a few abuse for the 100 that use it properly ????~~~~

A person's perception of welfare abuse can be realistic; however, it can also be skewed and I realize that. Yes, I stand behind my statements.

My perception of a few of these "personal stories" is not abuse, it's simply a difference in culture. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 20, 2008 2:38 PM:

" The sad thing is that the more babies these unfit parents make, the more of our tax money our government is happy to give them. Talk about encouraging behavior! "

boscoe wrote on Aug 20, 2008 2:36 PM:

" This program only teaches children that they need to rely on the government to solve their problems and put food on their table. It makes parasites out of innocent children.

Punish the parents who neglect their children. Don't just enable and support more parents to have kids and not feed them properly. "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 20, 2008 1:26 PM:

" The personal stories of abuse keep rolling in mac, think you will stick with a few abuse for the 100 that use it properly ???? "

Oriley wrote on Aug 20, 2008 12:52 PM:

" The unfortunate thing is that in the end the kids suffer and it isn't right. Frankly, if tax payers have to pay the welfare bill then it is our right to voice our opinion about what gets done with the money. It isn't fair that losers who are lazy take advantage, the health department gives away birth control I understand, so why are these people baby factories? Because it is a living for them. And history will continue to repeat itself because the kids aren't taught any better. "

Oriley wrote on Aug 20, 2008 12:49 PM:

" I think they should investigate welfare recipients. If they have nothing to hide, then there shouldn't be a problem. A family memmber of mine (sad to say) lives on SSI, her boyfriend who has a guardian lives on SSI, they get free rent, have 2 kids and our tax money supports them. She doesn't do anything, they sit at home all the time and yet her children got taken away because of disgusting household and infestation. This is the type of person I am talking about that takes advantage. They have their hands out and I can't stand it. I am for the working poor, if you are trying, then you should get help. I don't want to provide to those who are lazy. "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 20, 2008 7:46 AM:

" I agree that it is very sad seeing an older man or woman not being able to afford their meds that are their means of survival. They should be able to get assistance in each and every way, no doubt about that. But not these people who are very capable of getting a job but wont do so because their more worried about going to the mall and setting on the couch watching their tv eating their 30 oz steak and loaded baked potato that we paid for. Why go get a job when we keep giving into these people who do this sort of thing. If you work hard and still cant make it, then yes you should be able to get help..... "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 20, 2008 7:42 AM:

" "But make a 75-year old grandmother take a drug test because she needs some help with a medical bill?"

For one, no one is even talking about medical bills, and older people needing help. What most of us are getting at is there are people out there whether they be black or white, that abuse the system by popping out 15 kids they cant care for, refuse to get off their butts and get a job, taking the easy way out by living off of our tax money by getting food stamps, bills paid for, rent paid for yet they have the money to have the nice cars, nice clothes, nice shoes. Thats what were talking about Mac. "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:38 PM:

" hey mac1974 , there are many good people in this recession that have been in the food line because of foreclosure, guess karma , jhad something to do with them all hitting rought times , I guess the Depression was albout karma to those people too, an India, Pakistan etc etc , bad karma "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:36 PM:

" karma????????? what fool rests their beliefs on karma?
Go rub Buddha's belly are something will you? Now I believe God helps those that helps themselves. I believe that God shines on Good Samaritans and people that live their life by the golden rule, but Karma because you critisize something? No one on here is wishing malnourished , underprivilaged people , ill will . They want a revised sytem because this one has a lot of faults . So because we want revision , then your so called karma should strike us poor. God gave us a brain so we could be anyltical about things and make rational judgements,. God also forgives sinners
not stike them with karma , good gracious, some you kill me "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:27 PM:

" if it was just a few mac , I doubt this many would
complain "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:26 PM:

" sorry inmo second to last post last , post is meant for newsreader 08 "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:23 PM:

" mac 1974 has had many people come on here and give example of personal abuse of the system , yet he still continues to say a few abuse the program, typical liberal, ignore the obvious when it refutes your philosophy "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:21 PM:

" Good for you inmo, in standing up for what is right!!
But its hard to leave the party part out when most democrats, say there is very little problem like Mac1974, one or two out every hundred ..quote and many democrats do want to expand the programs and throw more money into it without revisions . Come on inmo what party started welfare and medicaid ? gimme a break leaving the party oput of this is like talking
aboutthe expansion of the western frontier while leaving out the stories of the Indains . The roots of welfare is relative to this subject "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:19 PM:

" The buddy pack program is a good thing. The food bank is a good thing. Let me tell you folks something. Anonymous posts on this forum do not protect you from karma. This is 2008 and this is America and it's a dog-eat-dog world out there. If your wife is a stay at home mom and you bring home the bread, I hope you never lose an essential appendage, because you just might end up in that food bank line! With that said, I guarantee you if I'm serving you food, I will not judge you. "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:09 PM:

" I spent much of my childhood frequenting a V.A. in a neighboring state. During that time, I met many soldiers who made false claims so they could receive benefits. (this type of welfare is very lucritive if you qualify) Knowing that, did I ever think the Gov't needed to put the honest soldiers through any more hell than they'd already been through by inspecting their homes, cars, pharmacies, phone bills, drug testing them, etc.? Absofrigginlutely not!

What many of you are suggesting is unbelievably un-American. When you're poor in America and you need a little help, you should be punished? I know, I know, I took what you're suggesting completely out of context, didn't I? "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 7:57 PM:

" Bottom line, each and every one of you are entitled to your opinion about this. I believe a few abuse the system but many benefit from it and keep their dignity as human beings and that's far more important to me than a few people abusing it. "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 7:54 PM:

" ~~~~~Parents caught abusing the system who do not even have their kids should go to jail.~~~~~

I never said I didn't agree with that. But make a 75-year old grandmother take a drug test because she needs some help with a medical bill?

No! "

InMo wrote on Aug 19, 2008 6:01 PM:

" We need to demand these drugs tests and inspections from our government! DEMAND!
I feel sick knowiing I am working 50+ hours/week to support my step child and WE get NO help and do NOT ask for help - not even $20 MAC. And even with all of this me and my fiancee cannot always make ends meet - but like MommyinMidMo I make sure MY son has what he needs and even wants b 4 I look at my needs/wants.
Parents caught abusing the system who do not even have their kids should go to jail. Bad enough they are welfare addicts no need to be harnful parents 2 "

newsreader08 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 1:21 PM:

" Lets get the pharmacist call a hotline when they get a soma/codine prescription from some one who is doing a refill to soon all the time, Lets get the ER to report poeple who go there 5 time a week just for a ear ache, Lets check on their house, cars etc "

newsreader08 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 1:19 PM:

" I am a DEMOCRAT who it against this program, medicaid program.Just because I am against it doesn't make me a republican, so lets keep that out.
Yes we have people who need help- and they SHOULD get help. But ONLY- when they can pass a drug test, will allow us to inverstigate them whenever we want to and need to. We should be allowed to go to their house, check the bank account make sure they REALLY do need this and is not just abusing the system. Yes we always will have people who are going to abuse the system, but we have to outsmart them also. If you work for one of these systems.. you know where the holes are. "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 19, 2008 10:57 AM:

" okay mac, are you getting a clue its not just one or two every one hundred abusing the system ? I know people need these programs , but they need to be fixed because there are many that abuse it and give it a bad name for those that need them
What's worse is most liberals want to expand the program right now, I say no way till they clean up the mess they have . You have been given living proof of how messed up this system is . You democrats created this system, so you should have to clean it up before you expand it. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 19, 2008 10:41 AM:

" This backpack food program is a HORRIBLE PROGRAM because it just enables and encourages continued bad behavior by people who are obviously unfit to be parents.

What a blatant waste of tax dollars. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 19, 2008 10:40 AM:

" People need to take responsibility for their actions. Having four kids without a good career to support them means that you should live in poverty. However, the real tragedy is that she was allowed to keep having babies when she couldn't support even one.

Anyone see the 30-year old girl obit last week who had 9 kids, none of which she was raising?

Sterilize these people. "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 19, 2008 8:31 AM:

" I am so glad that some of you get my point, instead of twisting it around. A lot of you make very good points about testing these parents, i beleive, if you go down to the DFS office and do qualify for assistance, then you need to be tested for drugs, and i think they should do home inspections and make sure they really need the "help" they say they do! Just my opinion though! And thank you countercouple and oriley for the positive feedback!!!! "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 19, 2008 6:25 AM:

" ~~~~I have a family member who is a single mom with 5 kids, most of which have different fathers, she gets every kind of state/gov. aid and to top it off~~~~~

Yeah, you're right, she should get a job right now. Three years ago, I sent my children to a daycare in J.C. It wasn't the cheapest and it was far from the most expensive. I think approximately 100 children attend it daily. It would cost this woman approximately four thousand dollars/month to send her children there. "

jfking wrote on Aug 18, 2008 11:51 PM:

" I have a family member who is a single mom with 5 kids, most of which have different fathers, she gets every kind of state/gov. aid and to top it off, she gets disability and housing. Believe me, it's not because she can't get a job. She choses to be gone every night to the bars,maybe to find another man to produce some more state/gov. aid and then complain that she has no money. It is trully sickening. "

x86x wrote on Aug 18, 2008 7:03 PM:

" Bottom Line is that this program is a great one. I personally know a teacher who used this program. She stated that her student was so happy every friday to receive his backpack full of food. It was the only thing he had to eat. Why must everyone turn a good positive story about kids getting help into an all out class war? "

oriley wrote on Aug 18, 2008 2:59 PM:

" Point being, there are those kids who truly need the help and there are those (such as my family members) that take advantage and take away from those truly in need. It is just wrong and not right. "

oriley wrote on Aug 18, 2008 2:57 PM:

" The government helps those who WONT help themselves and turn their nose up at those who ARE trying and have a job. It makes no sense to me. I have family that I know takes advantage of the system and until we investigate those families then it will continue. Oh, they want to say "civil rights" well, where are my civil rights as a poor tax payer paying for those dead beats who have become baby factories to benefit themselves on my dollar? It is wrong and we need to put a stop to it. They shouldn't be allowed to keep having kids if they can't pay for them. It just irritates the daylights out of me! "

oriley wrote on Aug 18, 2008 2:53 PM:

" mommyinmidmo, I admire your maturity at such a young age with two children and trying to make it in the world today. I, myself am a single parent and qualify for nothing from the state. There was a time I wasn't receiving any child support and was struggling to get by. Even at my worst time financially, I didn't qualify for ANY state assistance when I do try, I do work and I don't sit around and take from the government, I just needed help at that time in my life. But because of guidelines the state set, those who actuall try end up suffering. Those who don't try and make welfare their lifestyle keep on taking advantage of welfare. It sickens me. "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 18, 2008 2:02 PM:

" inmo...another halleluiah to the choir, , in MAC'S world , this does not happen , "

InMo wrote on Aug 18, 2008 12:45 PM:

" MAC- I have a problem with the 1-2 people who are taking money, food and services and do not need it. That is one or two kids who NEED it who are not getting it.
The woman who claims to be a mom to my step-son is a druggie, who could work and provide but does not. She is sitting at home now watching Jerry Spiringer b/c the state makes it too easy for her NOT to work. She would rather be a welfare mom forever and not feed her kids, sell her fooodstamps for cash or drugs (she tried to seel them to US) get and take advantage of the taxpayer than do something for herself. BTW MAC she is as white as whitecanbe "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 18, 2008 12:36 PM:

" amen amen amen, LD, well put.. and boscoe the laws are messed up, it's unbeleivable how neglectful parents can be and still keep their kids , like that girl that set her kid on fire , social service had been out to her place several times and saw grandparents smoking dope..geesh "

boscoe wrote on Aug 18, 2008 10:03 AM:

" Countercouple makes and excellent point. If we know the parents are not taking care of these kids, why are we letting the kids go back to their neglectful parents?

It might be pretty easy to argue that the people making these lunches are also sharing liability for not hotlining these neglecting parents.

We need to be treating problems, not putting bandaids on symptoms. "

L D wrote on Aug 18, 2008 9:01 AM:

" Bottom line is this: Black or white, liberal or conservitave, more research needs to go into giving out our tax dollars to people in need. And for Gods sake, test these people for drugs, cigarettes and alcohol! Im not willing to help anyone thats not willing to give up some pointless habit to help their family. Be it $10 for a 12 pack, $4 for cigarettes or whatever the going rate is for weed, im not willing to buy those things for other people. However, i am honestly willing to help people in need, so long as theyre willing to help themselves. "

newtv wrote on Aug 18, 2008 8:57 AM:

" I am glad that children are not going hungary over the week end. IF it is due to hard times, financial problems, parents illness. All those reasons are valid and no one here should bat an eye . That could happen to any one. However once in a while it may be because of a drug stupor or abuse or laziness that some Parents don't feed their kids. That is what people are tired of. Maybe all the parents should be be screened in this program to make sure the kids don't go home to much worse. Just giving out spagettios may be masking a dangerous situation "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 17, 2008 8:48 PM:

" there ya go mac, throw the race card out when not one single person mentioned race. That way you can legitimize your point , by using that card, works most
of the time still too does'nt it ?, But... its getting less useful as well as it has been . Better use it more sparingly its wearing out
: Back to Mac's one or two abuse the system for a 100 that need it ." Mac there are alot that need it and do not abuse it , but.... there are alot that abuse it or do not need i that get it. Call a social service investigator and ask them what there average case load
is. Find out the real truth "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 17, 2008 1:23 PM:

" ~~~~negative brings negative~~~~

Yes it does, but this isn't about negativity. It's about racism. Why would anyone really care about about 1 or 2 people abusing the system while 100 people are truly benefiting from it? Answer: Nobody really does care about that. What a majority of mid-missourians do care about is trying to prevent anyone of color from receiving benefits.

That much is perfectly obvious from reading some of the posts on this thread. "

curious1 wrote on Aug 17, 2008 2:10 AM:

" I love how a positive story can be turned into a complaint fest about who is spending things properly. Its not about the parents, its about the kids. If it was your child neglecting your grandchild would you sit around and berate them while your grandchild starves. Certainly not(hopefully), you would do what needs to be done for the welfare of your child. End of story, these children are getting fed, one way or another. I applaud the person that came up with this idea, and pity the ones who complain. Karma will come around, negative brings negative "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 16, 2008 11:16 PM:

" mac you and the liberals are clueless when it comes to the real poor versus pretending poor "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 16, 2008 11:14 PM:

" amen sandhouse they all have cell phones, jewelry and the latest southpole fashions "

justhefacts wrote on Aug 16, 2008 11:13 PM:

" figured mac would get on here to protect all of his welfare abusers. He claims a few bad apples ruin the whole system for the true poor. ha!!!!! go into a school and watch all the free lunch kids dump full trays of food away that they take knowing they will not eat it, and see the 200 dollar jordan signature jerseys and the new shoes they wear every week, mac you don 't haver a clue , like the rest of your liberals "

sandhouse wrote on Aug 16, 2008 4:29 PM:

" "I'll bet the parents have plenty of money to buy jewelry, cell phones, cable TV, gold teeth, and dubs for the Escalade."

Aren't stereotypes fun??
They are sooo easy!!
Why bother to investigate or question when generalizing and racist stereotypes are so much easier!! DUH!! "

countercouple wrote on Aug 15, 2008 7:51 PM:

" This way we can garentee that the parents dont sell the food or sqander the public assistance meant to better the lives of the childeren. "

countercouple wrote on Aug 15, 2008 7:44 PM:

" Mommyinmidmo has it dead on! I'm thirty one years old and I couldnt have made a clearer point on the subject.

If kids are going hungry when they go home to theyre parents, why are we sending them home? If the parents arent able to go get FREE FOOD then its obviously neglect. I say lets build an orphanage of some sorts and give the kids as much food as they want to eat while theyre parents get theyre lives togeather. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 15, 2008 2:18 PM:

" Many of these folks Mac wants to use our tax dollars for are people who caused their own problems through their own behaviors. People who are too lazy to go to school and learn some skills. People who are not disabled but who have handicapped hang tags in their cars. People who drive up to the Samaritan Center in their Escalades, wearing their Air Jordans and talking on their i-phones. People who keep having kids and do not take care of them or who do not raise them. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 15, 2008 2:14 PM:

" Mac, I know what you are getting at. I agree with you that there ARE people who do not have support systems or have disabilities, etc. I know several personally who Blunt kicked off medicaid/medicare and they have no other insurance with their $600 a month income.

What we are talking about are the people we see who do have support systems but do not use them, or who have disabilities and use them as a crutch for everything, or who have the resources but use them on their own toys instead of taking care of their children. THAT is a crying shame. And these bad apples taint all users of public and private assistance. "

mommyinmidmo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 1:53 PM:

" I have people that would help me if i needed it, but right now in my life i am at a place where i dont. And i am greatful for that. I never said i took any thing for granted. I was just speaking my mind on how many people abuse our system, and for this the people who work hard to provide and fall short cant get help that it was i was talking about. So i dont know why your jumping all over me. And also i think this buddy packs is an awesome thing, i just hope there are not people abusing it and taking it away from their children. Have a great day everyone, im off to get my children. "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 15, 2008 1:48 PM:

" ~~~I dont know what your trying to get at with your comment, but okay.~~~~

I just wanted to know if you post was nothing but sanctimonious nonsense. You answered me.

And yes, I have a support system and I "could" ask for money if I needed it. I'm fortunate because of that. I know many, many, many people who don't have those luxuries that folks like you take for granted. Mommy, I honestly hope the luck you've experienced so far continues and you never find yourself in a situation where you honestly need help, because I'm a big believer in karma...... are you? "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 1:27 PM:

" And a nother thing, asking for $20.00 from someone has nothing to do with people abusing the system which is what i was talking about. Like i said before, I DO IT ON MY OWN, WITH NO HELP. WE WORK HARD FOR WHAT WE HAVE AND TO PROVIDE FOR OUR FAMILY, point blank, thats it. Have you ever asked for money, and do you have a support system to help with your children???? "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 1:21 PM:

" For one, I do work and very hard at that. And i do have a support system, its called my husband. I do have a mother, and a sister if you must know whos 8, not much support there, my fater passed away at when i was 16, and i pretty much do it on my own and i am proud to say that. If your trying to crack me down because im young, if you must know, I stay home with my children every weekend, i dont party i dont do anything with out my children, im a very dedicated mother and i pride myself in that. I dont know what your trying to get at with your comment, but okay. "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 15, 2008 1:16 PM:

" ~~~Its all about having a positive attitude and thinking "WE can do this" even at a young age.~~~

Do you have a support system, Mommy? A Sister, Brother, Mom, Dad, Grandma, etc. to help out with your children from time to time? Have you ever asked your parents for $20? Are you completely free of any disabilities that would prevent you from working? "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 12:12 PM:

" Thank you very much! Its all about having a positive attitude and thinking "WE can do this" even at a young age. I love being able to look around my apartment knowing that we worked hard to provide our childrens toys, clothes, and food, it makes me feel great knowing that we can do this on our own. But you will always have those people out there looking for the easy way out, and not wanting to work, asking for hand outs, and as long as we keep giving, their going to keep taking no matter what, untill something is done about it! And im the lucky one for having such great kids!!!! "

boscoe wrote on Aug 15, 2008 10:57 AM:

" AMEN MommyInMidMo!

I'd love to buy your family a friday night dinner treat for your hard work and excellent attitude!

Your kids are very lucky to have such excellent parents. "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 10:46 AM:

" I happen to be 21 years old and a mother of 2, and i work very hard for what i have, I make sure my CHILDREN are fed and dressed properly before myself or my husband. Its not that hard to go get a job, so mcdonalds isnt the "ideal" place to work, but its something and its you being responsible for caring for you family, not the state and everyones tax money. It makes me so mad seeing people at the store with 2 carts full of food, dressed to impress using their EBT card, get off your butt off the couch and get a job and provide for you family, its a sence of accomplishment to be able to do. "

MommyInMidMo wrote on Aug 15, 2008 10:39 AM:

" Our so called "system" is a joke, there are people out there drive around in nice cars, with the fancy wheeles, hair done, nails done, holding a coach purse with their 7 kids paying for their grocerys at walmart with their nice EBT card. Yet, you have a nice family of oh say 4 who work and live pay check to pay check and cant afford their home, insurance for their children, and cant to feed their family and yet they cant get help, now tell me there isnt something wrong with our system. If you have 200.00 to spend on a purse then you dont need to be getting assistance wit the state, take the money and buy food instead!!!!! "

boscoe wrote on Aug 15, 2008 10:27 AM:

" We need to take these kids away from the neglectful parents. Better yet, we need to prevent these people from breeding all the time.

I agree that we can't penalize the kids who couldn't select their parents. The kids need to be taken care of. However, giving them food is just treating the symptom and not the problem.

I help people all the time who need and want help. I will not help someone who has money to blow on alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, pets, cell phones, gold jewelry, Cadillacs, eating out all the time, etc. "

newsreader08 wrote on Aug 15, 2008 9:43 AM:

" Mac,
Maybe you need to look at the medicaid program. Due to how close i work i can see the claims and see who are getting most of the help. That just makes me plain MAD. i agree, these kids are not at fault, and should be helped. But i do not want to have that money go to people who can and will not just work. I have been to the Samaratian center to help out also, Have you even seen the cars they drive??
If you can't take care of our kids, we should be able to verify and then help you. We need more people to investigate people who are on welfare or to those who our charities go to. "

countercouple wrote on Aug 14, 2008 3:51 PM:

" I have to agree that in todays world theres no reason parents cant get food for theyre kids. We have easy to find programs that distribute food absolutely free of charge. If these kids still arent getting the food they need and they are on theyre own all weekend,..Thats neglect on the parents part and the kids should be taken away.

The first and most basic concept of parenting is to feed your children if you cant acquiesce to this concept you dont deserve to have influence on them.

I fully support this program hooray for its creators! "

unreconstructed wrote on Aug 14, 2008 1:43 PM:

" Just to add to the conversation, I'm a pretty darn conservative person. I believe in helping one's self. But, even though Mac and I disagree on a number of things, this is probably one thing we do agree on. These kids need help. None of us pick our parents, or certainly as children, we don't pick our circumstances either. Even if some of the parents are deadbeats, that isn't the kids' fault. Well put as well, AverageJoe, we all need to look in the mirror for who we are, and who we claim to be. I'll be making a donation to the Samaritan center, food & $$$, hope others do the same. "

Average Joe wrote on Aug 14, 2008 12:06 PM:

" I look around at people in our churches and society and see many who insulate and isolate themselves from the problems of this country. They sit in their warm comfortable homes, lock their children in private schools, and throw money at charity so they don't have to get personally involved and hope the problems go away.

Yes, we need a better system, but shame also on all of us (me included) who live in a wealthy Christian society, claim to be Christian, and don't lift a finger to help our neighbor. "

Average Joe wrote on Aug 14, 2008 12:01 PM:

" I agree that there are many that abuse the system. I also agree that it is easy to sit back in our warm, comfortable homes and get dis-illusioned and cynical about how and who gets helped by "the system".

Yes, we need a better system. But, with a crashing economy and a govt (and society) that wants, and lets the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, I don't see that changing.

That leads us to, and leaves us with charity. How obscenely rich, comfortable, entertained do we need to be before we have pity on and help our less fortunate neighbor? "

Mac1974 wrote on Aug 14, 2008 10:47 AM:

" ~~~~those parents who are working a min wage job will not get any help cause they are EARNING~~~~

I understand the militant, pharisaical disgust you folks have for poor people here, but let me ask you a question.

What in the wide world of sports makes any of you think these are NOT the children of working parents? I've volunteered for a food bank in a neighboring city 12 times over the last 2 years and I can tell you for sure that MOST people who receive these types of charity are gainfully employed. I guess it's much easier for you to fathom this if you can just think it's some lowlife black person who's too lazy to work. "

newsreader08 wrote on Aug 14, 2008 10:22 AM:

" The sad part is, those parents who are working a min wage job will not get any help cause they are EARNING, and the ones not working at all will get help from state and private funds just so they can have their hair and nails done, while they watch TV all day.. I feel sorry for the kids, as they are not at fault, But wish someone would get these parents and make sure they have NO KIDS unless they can afford them. "

boscoe wrote on Aug 13, 2008 10:38 PM:

" Why not prosecute the parents, including sterilization so they can't bring any more kids into the world to abuse?

I'll bet the parents have plenty of money to buy jewelry, cell phones, cable TV, gold teeth, and dubs for the Escalade. "

countercouple wrote on Aug 13, 2008 8:32 PM:

" I'm usually against the majority of welfare but,....jeeze this is so sad. Regardless of who you are, how much money you make or what political party you belong to, we as americans should be so ashamed that this is going on.

I know we can all contribute to the mid mo food bank but is there anything more people can do to help? "

castigliano wrote on Aug 13, 2008 7:42 PM:

" Living in America.

Why did the politicians send our jobs to China?

Is this all because we don't buy enough lottery tickets?

It's hard to study when you are hungry. "

missyk wrote on Aug 13, 2008 6:55 PM:

" What about the parents that lie to get these benefits? "

observer wrote on Aug 13, 2008 5:28 PM:

" It just kills me every time I read one of these articles. The thought that little kids are going hungry anywhere, especially in a place like Mid Mo is something I can't fathom. I've been through hard times growing up in a single parent home, but we always had something to eat. With the programs available it almost certainly comes down to neglect. A parent who would rather buy cigarettes than feed their children needs to be in prison. You want to help the kids, but then there is the fear that the parents would just squander the money/food you donate. How do you solve this problem? "


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